Tuesday, December 13, 2005

Do You See Me? I See You...


Sometimes we have the inability to see one another. But most of the time, I believe, we intentionally ignore one another because of our unwillingness to stop and engage beyond a surface level.

How are we to speak to another if the 'Burqa' covers who each of us is? Why not stop and ask to remove the hindrance so that we can honestly and openly communicate with them? Why are we so afraid of each other? What will we lose by taking time to speak beyond just the quick, casual glance of the eye?

Isn't this why we are on earth together? To get to know and understand one another better? How are we to do that if we keep ourselves behind locked doors, behind dark sunglasses? Behind our tinted windows? Behind the magazine at the grocery line?

I feel there would be less people feeling alone if we were just capable of sharing our lives with one another, with an acceptance and permission to be truly open and honest.

This doesn't in no way imply that we will not have days where we will hide behind our own 'Burqa' or of another's. But it is imperative that we take big, small and many moments in our lives to speak eye to eye. So that each sees the other for who each is.

It can be done. I think it needs to continue to be done. And as long as we are on earth with one another, shouldn't we be finding ways to better understand and love one another?

Ideal Unity...



I don't know if there is such a thing as 'ideal unity'. I want so much to believe in it but cynicism is getting in the way of what seems like what could be.

Too much bantering of who is wrong and who is right.

Too much yelling of my rights versus your rights.

Too much fighting over my heritage versus your heritage.

Too much blindness of one another's needs and desires.

Too much display of ignorance when in reality vengeance is sweet.

Where do we break the ties that bind us in such a force of hatred?

How can we move forward instead of looking at the past continuously?

How can we forgive one another for past wrongs and evidence of renewed integrity in one another?

Is there such a thing as ideal unity?